“Character,
it builds character,
that’s what it does;
hardship and struggle,
I mean.
They make you who you are.”
I guess that implies
something good.
That those whose lives
are built of hardships,
losses, defeats, failures
and struggle;
these are the Blessed.
These are the fortunate.
The oppressed and the downtrodden;
these are the inheritors
of the gift we call
“Strength of Character”?
Does that imply
that the coddled child,
raised in fortuitous circumstances,
is somehow devoid of character?
Do the silver spoon,
the lofty lineage,
the doting parents,
somehow deny one
“Good Character”?
Why is the tragedy so vital?
Is it because so many don’t come back?
So many don’t survive?
So many don’t rise from defeat,
having wrenched some type
of deep inner strength
from somewhere unknown,
even to themselves,
and laughed in the face
of their adversary
before they claimed victory
from the jaws of defeat?
Is this character,
or merely character tested?
Even the strongest of us,
when faced with some
ill set of circumstances,
can break,
can shatter
and be lost to the abyss of despair.
So is it character tested,
or character of perseverance?
What is it,
that thing that we seek
from others,
from ourselves?
What makes us survivors?
Is it the tragedy,
the test,
or the triumph?
HG – 2016
Struggle forces us to become stronger people; it can also break us. To become a truly strong and mature person requires overcoming a wide variety of pain – every single different source, without breaking at any point. That’s why so few good people exist.